everything makes sense when the sense is understood and accepted.
it is never easy to come into acceptance when it comes to making decision with alot of opinion. you can't force people to accept your idea, neither do I want to accept other people's idea if i don't find them making much sense according to mine point.

so where should a compromising point be sets in? how to define a win-win situation?

is it by reasoning and you are force to accept it unwilling?
OR
by laying the facts on the table and "suggest" others to look at matter openly?

dear told me i am not an "ad hoc project" worker. I am more of a "dateline worker" . To define it, that means i am someone who love working with a dateline, not someone who can easily adapt to drastic changes. To a certain extend it is very true of what he says. But for the "drastic changes" part i am not too sure if i would agree with him. My reason is because: " I believe no one in this world would LOVE accepting last min drastic changes and wanting such changes to be done on a fucking last min basis. And find doing them exciting !" Ridiculous lo ~

point noted, the above is only one of the issue why am i feeling so upset these few days. it also extend to my another concern. "What is the right thing to worry about at that point of time?"

if the problem have a "domino effect" (meaning this problem will lead on to more problems) am i suppose to settle the current problem and worry about the "rest" later?

OR

think about the situation on a whole ? think of a solution in every aspect before addressing the problems in an all rounded manner.

Sheesh ! all these problems have been going through my mind. And it is draining me out. maybe i should starting listening to my inner self to what i should do.... perhaps i could find a solution to all these....